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WHY ROMCONNED MATTERS (DATA +IMPACT)

ROMANCE SCAMS COST AMERICANS OVER $1.3BILLION ANNUALLY
BUT THE MOST VALUABLE THINGS STOLEN AREN'T MONEY...

Victims loose trust, dignity, identity and safety.  
Romconned exposes the crimes so people can heal, rebuild, and date again... with confidence
From Romcoms to Romcons, 
Romcoms were about falling in love 
Romcoms are about protecting yourself from it  
Romconned exists because modern dating changed
Real love still exists
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Financial Romance Scam Exposed. #iTrusted
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 From RomComs to RomCons

Why we used to laugh at love… and now we’re scared of it.

For decades, Hollywood taught us that love was quirky, hopeful, clumsy, magical.
But our culture has shifted. True crime replaced romance.
Investigation replaced infatuation.
RomComs were about falling in love.
RomCons are about protecting yourself from it.
Today, people don’t ask: “Do they like me?”
They ask: “Are they real?”
Instead of butterflies, we feel background checks.
Instead of meet-cute, we get meet-catfish
RomConned exists because modern dating changed.
Real love still exists — but we need tools, not fairy tales, to find it safely.
We’re not killing romance — we’re rescuing it from predators.

#iTrusted

Every con begins with one thing: trust.
Not stupidity.
Not weakness.
Not greed.
Trust.
We are wired to trust.
Human connection depends on it.
Predators exploit it.
Victims don’t lose because they were careless.
They lose because they did the most human thing:
they trusted someone who chose to harm them.
When victims say #iTrusted, they are not confessing guilt — they are reclaiming dignity.
It reframes the narrative:
•    from “I fell for it” → to “I trusted like any human would.”
•    from “I should have known better” → to “They should not have lied.”
Trust is not a flaw.
Exploitation is a crime.

#iTrusted

 I believed that she loved me. But she loved my bank account. She Future-Faked a wedding and life with me, then left with my money. But I am speaking up and taking back control of my life

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meet the hosts

Laurel House 
Relationship & Behavioral Dynamics Expert
Laurel is an expert in emotional manipulation, coercive control, and the relational mechanics that enable long-con fraud and romantic exploitation. She explains how manipulation works inside relationships — where crime begins — translating complex behavioral patterns into accessible insights that help audiences understand how deception takes hold.

Dr. Alex del Carmen
Criminologist & Law Enforcement Analyst

Dr. Alex brings rigorous academic insight into the structure of crime — from fraud to coercive control. He explains how perpetrators operate, why certain tactics are effective, and what patterns repeat across cases.

“Crime is not random — it follows patterns that can be studied, anticipated, and understood.”

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Your story can protect someone else.
You may share anonymously. We treat every story with dignity.
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